Happy in Early Years Marriage





Undergo early years of marriage, you may feel that life after marriage is not as beautiful shadow. Former spouse figure looks so perfect and makes you always want to be with, now acting so annoying that quarreled often occur. Quarrels happen just because of trivial matters. How can I make a fight that does not need to be avoided? How to run a marriage in the first years?
Married life was different when you were dating. When married, you spend more time with your spouse. Increased responsibilities, household chores that must be done making now you do not just have fun with friends. Unlike when you were dating the possibility of time you spend together is done in a pleasant situation like eating in a restaurant together, watching a movie, a walk in the mall or visit a place of recreation.
In order to create peace and happiness in the family, you have to learn in order to have special skills after getting married. Here are some new skills that you must have after marriage.

Communicating expertise
Two married people have different backgrounds. Decades have passed with education and habits of each family are not the same. Custom or way of doing a job that you do not really still carried away by the couple after marriage.
Due to feel upset, you may directly nag with a curt tone. Then, your spouse does not feel guilty, immediately responded by scolding too. Finally, another nagging happens and makes you feel unhappy with your marriage. Other reactions are you silent language support, grouchy and save resentment in the heart. It also resulted in the relationship became cold.
Solving this problem is the need for good communication. The things that block should be discussed with the couple in order not to accumulate. But, of course, must be done in a way that good communication. Instead, the problem was not discussed when the mood was still upset. Choose the right time to talk, for example, not when a new partner comes home from work and in a state of fatigue.
Communicating also includes listening. Thus, when discussing the problem, you are required to provide time for couples to express their feelings and opinions. Then, you can explain to your partner why you are doing certain actions which may be displeased.

Expertise Be Tolerant
Because of differences in background, style of speech, habits or actions of a new partner can be a problem. Husband may be used to talk as it is, while the wife is offended by the words of an innocent man.
For a problem like this, you should be tolerant or develop an attitude of tolerance. Real form of being tolerant is you want to make changes even if you think these actions are not wrong. Now, you should be more careful in speaking or you also learn to think positively towards couples that are not easily offended.

Expertise Running Tasks and Roles You Now
Newly married couple did not initially familiar with his new role now. Husband might still love to play online games, sports or love to gather with friends. The wife may not be able to play its role to get up early, preparing meals, washing, ironing or household chores other. Things like this can trigger an argument.
Once married, you have to learn to run your role now. It is not easy to stop or reduce the activity that we like. Not easy anyway to do the job we do not like. But, that is a new task which must be executed as your role as husband and wife. These things should be done by married couples.
You already know that after marrying more responsibility that must be borne. But, by talking and working together well, you will feel that the responsibility is not burdensome, and there are a lot of happiness to do it together.

Forgive expertise
This is one of the important skills in life household. Realize that life is not a perfect human couple that will be very likely to err either intentionally do not know. This expertise will also usually transmitted to your partner. If you often do not condone actions that you prefer, your partner will tend to do the same. By trying to forgive, family life will be peaceful and happy.
As a new partner, you have to keep learning to develop these skills in married life. Initially it may be very difficult to do so. But, by constantly learning, such expertise will be owned and will be fun while doing it. You also will not regret why you married him, but you will regret why not sooner decided to marry him.

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